I hate cheaters. I hate people who ruin a good relationship and don't have the guts to just say, "Sorry, we're just not working out". Unfortunately, I was cheated on. 5 months in the relationship, I saw my ex's message to HIS ex telling her how he still loves her.. OUCH!!! Right? Right. I made him cry that day. He deserved it. Ass.
I just recently received a message from a guy who has a a girlfriend. He texted me something flattering, and even if it's an ego-booster, I felt annoyed at how he can do such a thing to his pretty girl friend. What a terrible thing to do! In my honest opinion, you don't need to kiss another girl to say you're a cheater. Here's what I think:
If a guy in a relationship LOOKS at another girl-- That's totally fine. Looking is harmless plus nothing is initiated by just looking.
If a guy texts another girl that include the words:cutie, beautiful, hot..*and everything else synonimous* and is obviously referring to THE GIRL what would result to simple flirting-- that would be CHEATING.
Everything beyond this is considered cheating as well.
Do i sound too uptight? I really don't think it's too much. I mean if you really value the relationship and love the person you, wouldn't even DARE make a move that would put your relationship on the line. Like I said, if it's not working out and you want 'out' BE FRANK. It doesn't hurt-- I mean it WILL, but you'll be fine eventually.
OKAY! Let's lighten up the mood with some cheating humor :)